How to Stop a Toddler From Cursing
Parents look forward to hearing their toddlers say their first words. Words such as "Mommy," "Daddy" and "Puppy" make many parents proud of their toddlers. Some toddlers, however, use profanities in their language instead of only saying nice words. They may have heard their parents cursing or watched a television show that used bad language. Cursing can get your toddler in trouble at daycare, preschool or at a relative's house. If your toddler is using curse words, there are a few things you can do to stop it.
Instructions
Avoid saying curse words in front of your toddler. If you want your toddler to use clean language, you must be willing to do the same. If you use swear words, she will likely start repeating them. She may not understand why it is okay for you to say bad words if she is not allowed to say them. Ignore your toddler when she uses a curse word. Laughing or becoming angry encourages the behavior because toddlers enjoy receiving attention. If you ignore her bad language, she may become bored and stop. Teach your toddler alternatives to curse words. Toddlers enjoy learning new and interesting words to say. Suggest an appealing word, such as "abracadabra." If he uses a curse word to express frustration, tell him to say, "I feel angry!" instead of cursing. Explain that it is important to treat everyone with respect and kindness. Tell your toddler that calling her friend a curse word may hurt her feelings. Toddlers often say things without thinking, so it is important to explain how cursing can make others feel bad. Do not respond to your toddler's requests when he uses bad language. Calmly tell him you will only listen to him when he decides to speak nicely to you. Do not buy him an ice cream cone or take him to the park until he learns to use clean language.