How to Talk to Your Toddler About Surgery

As a parent, you're concerned about how your toddler will face the prospect of surgery, even if she doesn't understand what that word really means. According to the Oregon Health & Science University, toddlers grapple with a variety of emotions while preparing for surgery, including a fear of being away from parents and anxiety about medical equipment and doctors who look scary. Help your toddler prepare for the procedure by calming her fears and reassuring her that no matter what, you'll be there when she wakes up.

Things You'll Need

  • Toy doctor kit
  • Comfort item such as a blanket or stuffed animal

Instructions

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      Speak with your toddler no earlier than one to two days before the scheduled procedure. According to Children's Healthcare of Atlanta, this helps prevent unnecessary anxiety and sleepless nights in the days and weeks leading up to the procedure.

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      Provide your toddler with a simple explanation of the procedure using words and terms he understands. For example, Children's Healthcare of Atlanta recommends telling your toddler the doctor will help him fall asleep instead using terms like ̶0;anesthesia̶1; or ̶0;gas.̶1; Avoid using words that can make your toddler anxious, such as ̶0;sore̶1; or ̶0;pain.̶1; Instead, tell him the surgery will fix his boo-boo and make him feel better.

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      Familiarize your toddler with doctors, hospitals and equipment through play. Purchase a toy medical kit and help your toddler play doctor with her stuffed animal. Explain to her that the doctor will use similar equipment to help her feel better.

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      Tour the hospital or surgery department with your toddler. Introduce your toddler to her surgeon and the nurses on the floor. Ask the staff to explain what everything is in the hospital, such as the operating room, surgical masks, gloves and anesthesia mask. Stay at your toddler's side at all times and reassure her everything will be all right.

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      The night before surgery help your toddler pick out a comfort item, such as a favorite stuffed animal, blanket or toy, to take with her to the hospital. Let your child keep the item at all times, as it will help her feel safe.

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      Remain with your toddler as much as possible before the surgery. The University of Minnesota Children's Hospital urges parents to participate in the care of their toddler as much as possible. Hold her hand, sing a favorite song or share one of her favorite books. Ask a trusted family member or your spouse to take over if you find yourself overwhelmed. Avoid becoming too emotional in front of your toddler, as this will only heighten her anxiety.

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