Difficult Issues for Teens Approaching Adulthood

Teens approaching adulthood have a range of challenges to deal with -- and so do their parents. If a teen and her parents are prepared for the transition from adolescence to adulthood, the difficult issues are less likely to have a negative impact on their relationship. Separating from the family, becoming financially independent and choosing a career path are common issues faced by teens transitioning into adulthood.

  1. Living Independently

    • Preparing simple meals is an important skill for a teenager.

      Becoming an adult involves developing skills to become more financially independent and deal with the demands of daily life without constant parental supervision. Paying bills, doing household chores, preparing meals and arranging health care are some of the tasks most teenagers don't have to deal with. Help to prepare your teen for these realities of life by showing him how to budget and teaching him basic cooking skills.

    Choosing a Career

    • A teenager may decide to go to college or apply for a job.

      A huge decision facing teenagers approaching adulthood is what to do after graduation from school. It can be daunting to decide what to do with the rest of your life when your life experience is limited. A teenager who doesn't have a clear idea of what career path she wants to pursue may become overwhelmed by the range of options available to her. You can make it easier for your teenager by taking the time to discuss her strengths and interests, create a short list of possible careers, and accompany her to job fairs and college open houses.

    Family Separation

    • Practical help for a teen moving out will make the process easier.

      Moving out of the family home, whether to live in an apartment or go to college, is an exciting prospect for a teenager. This is when he finally has the freedom he has been craving throughout adolescence. Despite his excitement, however, he is likely to feel apprehensive about this huge transition. Make sure your teen knows the family home is still his home, and check in with him regularly by phone, text or email.

    Establishing a Sense of Identity

    • Many teens struggle to work out who they are.

      Identity issues affect teens throughout adolescence, and when they reach adulthood many of them may still be struggling to work out their own beliefs, values and goals. With so many changes taking place within a short time, it's natural for a teenager to feel confused and uncertain. The best thing you can do for your teen is to provide emotional support. Avoid forcing your opinions and beliefs onto her. Making her own decisions -- even if they may not always be the right ones -- is an important part of moving from adolescence into adulthood.

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