How to Handle Disrespectful Teenagers

Teenagers can be difficult at times. They are going through hormonal changes and testing their independence. Stay involved in your teen's life and show that you support and love him. At times, he will test your patience, such as when he shows disrespect. Always remain in control, and teach him that disrespectful behavior is not allowed.

Instructions

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      Stay calm. You might want to yell at your disrespectful teen. Don't let this happen. Take a deep breath. Tell your teenager to go to his room for 10 minutes to give yourself time to calm down. You are the parent, and your teenager learns from your behavior. Never give in to temptation and yell at your teenager. This shows him that it's OK to yell at others.

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      Talk calmly with your teenager. Explain that the disrespectful behavior is wrong and why it is wrong. Take your time when speaking. Look your teenager in the eye and ask her questions to be sure that she understands why she was wrong. Your teenager will not learn if you don't take the time to explain.

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      Give your teenager consequences for his bad behavior. You must not brush it off. Your teen needs you to be a parent and provide a structure in the home so that he knows how to handle himself in life. Punish your teenager for his actions. If he yelled at you, give an appropriate punishment, such as he cannot talk on his phone the rest of the evening.

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      Enforce and be consistent with punishment. After you've given the punishment, stick to it. You can't let your teen talk you out of it. If your child is not allowed phone calls, don't back down if she comes crying to you. You must always be consistent and show your teenager that bad behavior has consequences. You want your child to learn to be accountable for her behavior.

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