How to Get Your Child to Fall Asleep At Night
Getting a child to fall fast asleep at night seems like it should be a dream, but for some parents bedtime is a nightmare. Bad habits, over-stimulation and power struggles can get in the way of a good night's sleep -- not just for your child, but for everyone in the house. Take measures to help your child fall asleep in his own bed without a fuss, and you may find that you'll rest easier, too.
Things You'll Need
- Toy box or storage container
- Blanket
- Pillow
- Stuffed animal
- Story books
Instructions
Determine a strict bedtime and rising time for your child. Keep him on schedule, even on the weekends. Once the sleep schedule is disrupted, it takes a few days to get back into a solid routine. Disturbing your child's sleep schedule every weekend is counterproductive to what you̵7;re trying to do the remainder of the week. Remove distractions from your child̵7;s room that might interfere with sleep. According to Parenting.org, it̵7;s best to take out any laptops, cell phones, video games and gadgets before bedtime. Put away any toys that might tempt him to climb out of bed -- put them out of sight in a toy box or away in the closet, or remove them from the room if necessary. Make your child̵7;s room an environment conducive to sleep. Prepare the bed with his favorite blanket, pillow or stuffed animal. Healthline recommends lowering the temperature so it̵7;s cool enough to be comfortable with a blanket. Draw the curtains and shut the door so lights or noises from outside or other rooms in the house won̵7;t disturb him. Establish a bedtime routine to help transition your child from waking to sleeping hours. Activities during this time should be aimed at helping your child wind down and relax. A bedtime routine might include giving him a warm bath, brushing his teeth, getting him into pajamas, tucking him into bed, reading him a story then kissing him goodnight. After a while of performing this ritual every night, your child's brain may begin to associate the activities with going to sleep. Leave the room so your child can learn to fall asleep on his own. Cuddling and rocking a sleepy child always makes for a precious moment, but Psychology Today stresses the importance of letting your child discover how to self-soothe so that he can go to sleep on his own. If your child begs you to stay, reassure him that you̵7;re nearby and will be in to check on him, and leave the room. Return to the room and comfort your child occasionally if he is crying. There should be no renegotiation about bedtime -- just reassure him that he̵7;s okay and you̵7;re close, then kiss him and leave again. If he is not used to self-soothing or going to bed alone, it make just take some time for him to adapt to the new routine.