Child Discipline Laws

Controversy surrounds child discipline laws in the United States. States interpret the laws in different ways and these laws and administrative regulations vary as to the appropriate forms of discipline and punishment in different settings. Public schools, private schools, day care centers and the home may have a different interpretation of the laws. One general law that does exist in all 50 states allows spanking of one's own child.

  1. Definition

    • The primary objective of child discipline should be to train him/her to develop self-control, orderliness, and efficiency. It is a process that helps children learn appropriate behaviors and make good choices. Positive discipline gives children a sense of security, protection and accomplishment. It is important that they learn accountability and mutual respect early in life in order to grow into responsible adults.The consequences of little or improper discipline put children at risk for many emotional and behavioral problems. Discipline requires a great amount of effort on the part of the parent, school or day care provider.

    Effective Implementation

    • Whether at home or in a school setting, it is important to state boundaries and commands clearly and concisely. Instructions should be delivered calmly, firmly, and not given as a request. Authority must be clearly and consistently established. Children should learn that all actions have consequences. They must be encouraged to make good choices and understand that they are responsible for their choices. Predictable consequences should be provided as an integral part of any discipline program. The caregiver should never make idle threats, but must state directives and follow through. Punishment should be age-appropriate and administered in a positive manner.

    Techniques and Corporal Punishment

    • Several years ago, schools and teachers used corporal punishment as the primary method of disciplining children. Today, 30 states do not allow any form of corporal punishment, but that means that 20 states still use it in some form. In states that do allow spanking in school, parents decide whether or not they will allow it for their children. Parents must stay informed as to the policies in place in their child's school or day care center. Most public schools handle discipline issues with a simple time-out procedure or in-school suspension; however, if there is concern over school safety, expulsions may be used. Each state or individual school district has specific rules concerning school disciplinary procedures.

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