How to Discipline Kindergarten Age Children

Kindergarten-age children, generally 5-year-olds, are at an important time in their lives when they are just learning reason and their behavioral patterns are beginning to take shape. They are still young enough to act up in irrational fits and will need to be disciplined in a manner that teaches them why they should not act this way. Neglecting to discipline a child when he displays inappropriate behavior allows him to think there is nothing wrong with how he is acting.

Instructions

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      Ask your child why he is acting out. At first the child may try to think of a reason and get frustrated and only act worse. When this happens, stay calm and tell the child you cannot help him unless you know what he wants. If the child is making a scene in public, such as the store, take him home without a reward. The child will continue his fit on the ride home, but will eventually settle down.

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      Talk to your child when he is calm. Ask him why he acted up. If this upsets the child, explain to him that he will not receive any treats, such as playtime or his choice of snacks until he talks this out with you. This may take time, so be patient and don̵7;t cave in. You hold the power and you are delivering an important message about communication and reason.

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      Explain that crying will not get him what he wants and that while good behavior will not always achieve his desires, it will be seen more favorably. Explain to your child what actions he displayed that are considered bad behavior, then let him know what he could have done to show good behavior. Explain that his behavior caused you to leave the store and now you do not have the things you need in the house. This shows him how his behavior impacts the family.

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