How to Encourage a Shy Toddler to Play

The scene is set for an over-the-top, fabulously fun play-date, your child's play-date peer is at the door and ready to go and your toddler is huddled behind your legs keeping woefully mum. If this, or a similar, situation is the norm when it comes to your shy toddler and play times, you don't have to give in and stop scheduling social times. According to the early childhood experts at Zero to Three, some children have temperaments that make them cautious in strange situations or around new people. Encouraging your tot to perk up at her play date will help her socialize.

Instructions

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      Give your shy toddler time to warm up or get comfortable with a new situation, setting or friend. Stick by his side, encouraging him to explore his new environment on his own time.

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      Observe your child when she is comfortable at play. Look for situations that trigger her shyness, such as certain people or places. Reassure her or stick close by during these situations, easing her into play.

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      Let your child know that you understand her sense of caution and that you are there to help her feel more comfortable with her play date.

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      Plan structured activities that put your child into the center of the play. Come up with a creative craft, such as making a collage, or engage your child and his peer in a game of block building during a play date.

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      Introduce your child to play situations one on one or in small groups, instead of large groups of kids.

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      Invite your toddler's playmate to your house. Give him a sense of comfort in the familiar, making him more open to playing or engaging in activities with another child.

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