How to Keep a Relationship Interesting for Teens

As your children mature, your relationship changes. When you hit the teen years, your teen might suddenly start to assert her independence, seeking fulfilling activities and relationships beyond your immediate family. While you want to allow her to enjoy some independence, you also don't want your parent-child relationship to falter. Finding new and interesting ways to maintain your relationship can keep your teen engaged, even as she matures.

Instructions

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      Maintain open lines of communication. When communication halts, your relationship struggles. The American Academy of Pediatrics' HealthyChildren.org suggests you ask engaging questions, ones that encourage your teen to open up. Listen to his answers, and respect his opinion even if it's different from yours. Share life experiences so your teen can relate.

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      Ask your teen what she wants to do. A trip to the mall might sound appealing to you, but your teen might prefer watching her favorite band play at a local venue. Create activities that focus on your teen's interests and hobbies to establish an interesting and engaging relationships. Your teen will appreciate your effort to focus on her interests, not yours.

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      Celebrate milestones in unique ways. While you've been blowing out candles and singing happy birthday since your child turned 1, you now have more milestones to celebrate as your teen matures. Whether he lands his first part-time job, becomes class president or wins the science fair, his accomplishments deserve attention. Surprise your teen with a celebration for his achievement -- a celebration you can enjoy together.

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      Trust your teen, and give her some freedom. While your teen might expect you to immediately reject any out-of-the-ordinary request, surprise her. When she asks to do something you trust her to do, allow it. Give her a taste of freedom, and encourage her to behave appropriately. Strong parent-teen relationships require trust, according to Planned Parenthood. Your approval of her request will allow her to see your relationship in a new light.

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      Learn about your teen's interests. Perhaps you were in the band, and your daughter is a star soccer player. You might not know much about the sport, but you can learn about it and show your support by picking her up from practice and attending games. A parent-teen relationship that focuses on a teen's favorite activities will be instantly interesting for the slightly self-centered teen.

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