How to Deal with a Teen Who Has Oppositional Defiant Disorder

According to the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, oppositional defiant disorder is an ongoing pattern of hostile behavior toward authority figures, uncooperative and defiant behavior. Dealing with a teen who has oppositional defiant disorder is going to be difficult. It is important that you don't throw in the towel and give up. Teenagers need more love and attention from adults than they are willing to admit. Those who receive it are more apt to grow into respectful and successful adults.

Instructions

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      Plan fun, one-on-one activities with your teen. This will help your teenager bond and build a rapport with you. The better the relationship is, the more communication will transpire between the two of you. If there are open lines of communication, there are bound to be less problems.For girls, try a day at the spa or a shopping trip. Boys may enjoy a day at the ballpark or racetrack. Think of specific activities that your teen will enjoy.

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      Seek regular therapy from a licensed psychologist. Try weekly or bi-weekly sessions and, when possible, join in on some sessions if the psychologist advises. Stay involved and follow the therapist's recommendations. Ask your family doctor or pediatrician for a referral.

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      Visit a psychiatrist. A psychiatrist, unlike a psychologist, can offer additional care, provide a medical diagnosis and prescribe medication if necessary. While it is important not to over-medicate children, it is important to note that in some cases, the pros of medication will outweigh the cons. For instance, if your teen is a danger to herself or others, medication may help those violent tendencies.

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      Keep a close eye on your teen at all times, without hovering. Make sure you know where he is at all times. Make friends with the parents of your teenager's friends so you can talk openly about your teen's behavior when she visits their friend's homes.

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      Try a supervised equine therapy program. This is becoming a popular trend and may be successful with teenagers who have been diagnosed with behavioral disorders. As they learn to care for the horses, they learn a respect they have never had. These programs are monitored and may be covered by your insurance plan.

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