How to Have a Social Life as a Single Mom

Life as a single mom can be tough. Naturally, you put your children's needs above your own, but you still want to have some "me" time. If you feel like your social life needs an overhaul, do something about it. You'll feel a lot better if you start to see yourself as someone in addition to "Mom," and your children will benefit from having a happier, more content parent. You might not be able to go out and party all night, but you can still make time for yourself to have fun and increase your circle of friends.

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      Set aside at least one evening a week for yourself. Plan something that gets you out of the house and in the company of other adults. Plan around visitation, or ask a friend or relative to mind your children to allow you to go out. If this isn't possible, find a babysitter you can trust.

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      Join a local social group. Consider your options and become a member of a group that interests you. Whether it's running, wine tasting, literature or something else entirely that appeals to you, it's important to spend this valuable time away from your children doing something you enjoy. This also increases your chances of connecting with like-minded people. Look in your local paper for details of social groups, or check out listings for your area on websites like Meetup.com and SocialGrid.com. If there is a cause you feel passionately about, consider volunteering. As well as meeting new people, you'll be giving something back to your community and learning new skills.

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      Try online dating to meet eligible singles. Go for a reputable dating site like Match.com or eHarmony, or check out those that specialize in single parents, such as Just Single Parents. Online dating lets you look at the profiles of potential dates before you make contact with them, and take things at your own pace. Even if you don't meet your soul mate online, you may make several new friends.

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