What Are Some Questions That I Might Ask My Son's First-Grade Teacher When I Go for a Conference?

Questions About Academics

• Ask your child's teacher about what your child will be learning in the classroom such as curriculum used for reading, math and science. This information will give you an idea of what to expect in terms of homework and projects so that you can better assist your child. Knowing the subject matter covered in school also makes it easier for you to talk with your child about what he is learning. At this time, also ask if your child will be taking part in any standardized testing and how you can help him prepare.

Your Child's Performance

• Ask the teacher if your child is performing to the best of his ability. Find out what areas need work and in which subjects your child excels. For example, perhaps your child is a math whiz but he's having trouble with catching on to reading fundamentals that are an integral part of first-grade curriculum. If your child is struggling in a particular area, find out what you can do at home, such as helping your child study for an upcoming test or reading with your child to boost reading comprehension and fluency. If your child has fallen behind, ask about services such as at-home tutoring that might be beneficial. Additionally, ask the teacher how student progress is evaluated.

Fitting in to First Grade

• Because your child is relatively new in the elementary setting, you are bound to wonder if he is happy there. Ask the teacher about how your child is acclimating to first grade and also ask about the subjects he enjoys the most. Find out if your child has friends and how he interacts with other children and adults. Ask if your child has behavioral problems that need to be addressed and how best to handle such issues. Additionally, ask questions to determine if your child's social skills match those of his peers, and in what ways you can foster his social growth.

Getting Involved

• Parental involvement is important for a child's academic success. Ask your child's teacher how you can participate in the classroom and school. Find out about opportunities to volunteer in the classroom by tutoring or bringing snacks. You might also chaperon field trips or provide flyers for an upcoming class event. Ask the teacher how to stay up-to-date with your child's classroom lessons and about how to communicate questions or concerns.