How Do I Deal With a Child With Behavior Problems?

Patience is key to dealing with any type of behavior disorder. Behavior problems in one child have an impact on every child in the family and are stressful to parents. Children with behavior problems usually struggle with friendships and in school.

  1. Indications

    • Recognize the warning signs: aggression, defiance, tantrums, stealing, lying, damaging property; skipping school. Most children exhibit some of these occasionally. Concern is warranted when behaviors persist beyond the appropriate age or occur frequently during a period longer than six months or when a child shows no remorse.

    Types

    • Behavior disorders include attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder, oppositional defiant disorder and conduct disorder. Seek diagnosis and intervention by qualified professionals. Children with these disorders are at heightened risk of substance abuse and mental illness.

    Solutions

    • Ask for help. Caring for children with behavioral problems is exhausting. Often you feel other parents are judging you. It is important to feel you are not alone. Join a support group. Seek professional advice. Educate yourself about problem behaviors through reading. Stay positive and remember to praise good behaviors.

    Expert Insight

    • Use the "Highway Patrol Approach" to discipline: have simple rules with logical consequences. Ensure your child understands the rules. Do not bend rules or alter punishments. Enforce consequences immediately and consistently. Speak calmly and politely.

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