How to Respond to Awkward Questions

Awkward questions are generally followed by a brief, awkward silence. These types of questions might be controversial, complicated, or downright embarrassing. Whatever the case, there's no possible way to avoid them. This is especially the case when you're dealing with young children. Instead, develop a mechanism for dealing with these questions as they come.

Instructions

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      Let your emotions pass before you respond. Awkward questions are likely to make you feel like you are put on the spot. If they bring up any feelings, such as anger, disappointment, or humiliation, allow those feelings to pass over you before you speak. This will keep you from regretting your response.

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      Ask that the question be repeated. Unless this is going to bring you more humiliation, asking for a reiteration might actually bring new light to the question and make it less awkward.

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      Decide what an appropriate answer might be based upon the situation. For example, if someone asks, "Are you pregnant?" at a family dinner and you're not ready to discuss it, you can respond with, "I don't think that's an appropriate question right now."

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      Put the answer to the question on hold if necessary. If you aren't being forced to give an answer immediately, vow to talk about it at a later date. This works well with children but you must keep your word and answer their question later.

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