How to Plan Your Child's First Haircut

The first haircut is an exciting step for parents, often commemorated with photos, video and locks of the clipped hair. Your tot may not be as excited and cooperative as you had hoped. The new experience is sometimes scary for a young child, especially if she is already nervous around strangers. Planning her first trip to the salon helps reduce the tears so your child comes out with a new hairstyle -- without you losing all of yours.

Things You'll Need

  • Squirt bottle
  • Bag
  • Toys
  • Games
  • Stuffed animal
  • Camera

Instructions

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      Visit or call salons before booking the appointment to find a place that is child-friendly. Many cities have salons specifically for children with special seats and kid-friendly decor. Ask for recommendations on stylists who have experience with young kids. A stylist who has never worked with a toddler may not have the patience or skill to tackle the haircut.

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      Book the appointment at a time when your tot is usually cheerful and cooperative. A haircut right before nap time or near a meal will likely result in resistance for your child, for example.

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      Play salon at home in the days leading up to the appointment. This gives your tot a chance to practice sitting still. Many salons squirt a child's hair with water instead of washing it in the sink. Use a spray bottle at home to prepare her for the feeling. Give her a chance to fix your hair at the home salon too.

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      Decide how you want your child's hair cut. If you're making a major change, bring along a picture of a child's hairstyle you like. For a simple trim, decide how much you want cut from her hair. Knowing what you want saves time at the salon and allows you to focus on your child.

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      Pack a supply bag full of distractions if you don't think your child will sit still. Small toys, games or a favorite stuffed animal are examples of items to bring for the haircut. Choose items that you don't mind getting a little hairy.

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      Recruit another adult to go along with you to the salon. An extra pair of hands helps you keep your toddler calm. The other adult can also snap photos or take video for you while you manage your child.

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      Leave early for the appointment so your child has time to explore the salon. Rushing in the door and putting her right into a chair gives her no time to adjust to the new setting. Ask the stylist to let your child see the scissors, combs, clippers and other tools she'll use before she starts on the cut.

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