How to Get a Grown Adult Child With Children Out of Your Home

Asking family to move out can be stressful, especially when they're your own children. But you have a life and it's time you start living it. By living on his own, your adult child will learn to become self-sufficient and more responsible. In turn, he'll pass these skills onto his own children. With the right game plan, getting your adult child and his family to move out can be a painless process.

Instructions

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      Make a list of reasons you why you want your child to move out. By organizing your thoughts, it will make the future discussion with your adult daughter go much smoother.

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      Determine if there's a real reason why your son and his family can't live on their own right now. If your adult son is suffering from some type of mental illness, such as clinical depression, seek professional help for him as soon as possible. Contacting child-welfare agencies may be necessary, too.

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      Ask your adult daughter if she wants to move out. If the answer is yes, ask her what's holding her back. If employment is an issue, ask if she's willing to work minimum wage until she finds something better to support her family. Offer to take her to an employment office or potential employers, such as retail stores, restaurants or temporary labor offices, to fill out applications, the Main Street website suggests.

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      Explain to your son and his family that they not be able to afford a place like yours. Still, they can still find safe affordable housing. Set up a time and date to look for apartments. Discuss the prospect of roommates to help offset some of the rent.

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      Ask your daugher if she's consistently saving money to move the fmaily on out on their own. Have her submit pay stubs and bank statements. You're entitled to this information because you're providing financial assistance.

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      Pick a move-out date to work toward. Be firm with your decision. After you've laid out the game plan, it's imperative to follow through with it.

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