How to Prevent Child Tantrums in Public

Toddlers are well-known for losing their tempers; it's not called the "terrible twos" for nothing. However, even older children can be prone to the occasional tantrum. Tantrums at home are one thing, but those that happen in public are quite another. First of all, remember that all children have their moments of bad behavior, and you're not the first parent to face the embarrassment of trying to placate a screaming child in a busy shopping mall or playground. But you can take steps to try to prevent public tantrums before they start.

Instructions

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      Acknowledge your child's positive behavior. Give him praise when he is behaving well, which encourages him to continue behaving well. Kids prefer negative attention (i.e. getting into trouble for throwing a tantrum) to no attention at all, points out KidsHealth.org. Comment on your little one's good behavior and make sure he knows it makes you happy.

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      Give your child as much independence as you feel is appropriate for her age. For example, when you take your 3-year-old out for lunch, ask her, "Would you like to sit in this chair or that one?" Or give her a choice between two meals. This makes her feel as if she has some control over the situation.

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      Try to anticipate a public tantrum before it starts. Look for signs that your child is hungry, tired, frustrated or irritated, which is when he may be more likely to snap. Distract him with a drink or snack. Take him by his hand and talk to him in a low, soothing voice, maintaining eye contact the entire time. Ask him if he would like a hug or to sit down beside you for some quiet time.

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      Choose your battles. If your child is on the verge of throwing a tantrum in public because you won't give her another piece of candy, ask yourself if you would rather relent on this occasion or deal with a full-on outburst. Aim for consistency in the messages you give your child. If you don't have strict rules about sugary treats, you can't blame your child for expecting another one and losing her temper when you refuse.

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      Take your child to a quiet place or another room. This might not be possible in public, but do what you can to prevent her (and you) from being the center of attention if she does lose her temper. Changing the environment may be enough of a distraction to stop a tantrum before it begins. If this doesn't work, take her home immediately.

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