How to Explain a Pet's Death to a Child

The death of a pet may very well be your child's first real encounter with death. Explaining your pet's death to your child in an educational and positive manner will allow them to fully understand what has happened. When this is done properly, it will permit them to find closure in the loss of the pet, and it will begin to teach them how to properly handle grief now and in the future.

Things You'll Need

  • Child
  • Pet

Instructions

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      Begin to explain the process of death to your child once you have learned that your pet's diagnosis is terminal. Use age-appropriate terms to describe the process to her, and avoid using euphemisms that might confuse.

    • 2

      Allow her to see the pet if it is still alive. Encourage her to gently stroke her pet and to spend time with it.

    • 3

      Speak honestly about the condition that has caused your pet to die, making sure to take into consideration your child's age and emotional maturity as you do this. Answer any questions that your child may have about why her pet has died.

    • 4

      If your pet has been euthanized, briefly explain the process of euthanasia to your child if your child is old enough to handle it. Avoid using terminology such as "put to sleep," and be sure to make the difference between going to sleep and being euthanized clear to avoid confusion and fear.

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      Let your child know that her feelings regarding the death of her pet are acceptable, and encourage her to express them. Comfort her as needed.

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