How to Get a Toddler to Stay in Bed

Keeping a toddler in his bed presents a challenge to many parents. The transition from a crib to a toddler or twin bed proves difficult for many youngsters. Consistency is key when teaching your toddler to remain in his own bed. Toddlers often test the boundaries in the beginning of the process. It doesn't take long for a toddler to determine if she can convince you to let her sleep in your bed or get up multiple times. A consistent and united front on dealing with the sleeping troubles produces the best results.

Things You'll Need

  • Toddler or twin bed
  • Mattress
  • Sheet set
  • Blanket
  • Stuffed animal

Instructions

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      Create an appealing bed area for your toddler. Involve him in selecting the bed if possible. Let him pick out a special set of sheets or a blanket to add to the bed. Have him help you make the bed.

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      Add a special stuffed animal, blanket or pillow to the bed. The familiarity of the favorite item comforts your toddler as she goes to sleep.

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      Establish a consistent bedtime routine that works for your toddler. Determine which activities are included in the routine, such as a bath, teeth brushing, pajamas, reading stories and singing songs. Organize these activities in a logical order. Stick with the routine every night so your toddler knows what to expect.

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      Talk to your toddler about your expectations for him at bed time. Use simple, clear sentences when describing what you expect. Explain that he needs to stay in his bed after you tuck him in. Remind him of these expectations each night as a refresher.

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      Put your toddler back in her bed if she gets up. Refrain from yelling or disciplining her. Simply put her back in bed and remind her of your expectations of remaining in the bed. Continue putting her back in her bed as many times as necessary.

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      Address any underlying causes that could affect your toddler's sleep. Talk with your toddler to determine if fear is preventing him from sleeping or staying in bed. Find a way to ease the fears for your toddler. Check for environmental disruptions that cause distractions, such as a streetlight shining in the window or a loud television in another room.

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      Remain consistent with your expectations and actions. Giving in or letting her sleep in your bed one night gives her motivation to press you on subsequent nights.

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