How to Avoid Having a Jealous Toddler

Because you̵7;ve been the center of your toddler̵7;s world, he may exhibit jealousy if a new baby, job or romantic relationship suddenly diverts your attention. Although you can̵7;t rearrange your life to cater to your toddler̵7;s demands, you can understand his feelings and attempt to soothe them. Reduce your toddler̵7;s jealousy with strategies that make him feel loved, supported and special.

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      Diffuse your toddler̵7;s jealousy by preparing her for impending changes. If your toddler will be sharing her room with a new baby, for example, Education.com suggests moving the crib into the room months in advance to help your toddler adjust. Reading your toddler books about a new addition to the family can also prepare her for the impending change.

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      Schedule one-on-one activities with your toddler if she̵7;s jealous about the time you̵7;re spending away from her. An article on EverydayFamily.com recommends taking your toddler to the park or out for ice cream without bringing other family members along to make her feel special.

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      Encourage your toddler to express his feelings. Although he might be too young to grasp the concept of jealousy, help him understand that he might feel upset because you haven̵7;t been able to give him as much attention as you used to. An article on Education.com notes that just giving your toddler the chance to discuss his anger and the words to express his emotions might help ease his jealousy.

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      Discuss the opportunities that your toddler has that person she is jealous of does not. If your toddler is jealous of an older sibling, for instance, the Supernanny website recommends pointing out that you spend time alone with her while her older sibling is at school. Enroll your toddler in activities for her age group, such as a baby music or mommy-and-me class.

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      Enlist the help of friends and family to help reduce your toddler̵7;s jealousy. If you have an addition to the family that is making your child jealous, an article on the Fisher-Price website suggests asking loved ones who come to see the new baby to spend time with your toddler, as well. Spending time with grandparents can also make your toddler feel special again.

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