How to Act Around Girls

Girls can make even the most confident guy feel like he doesn't know how to act. They sometimes seem like they know something guys don't and are secretly laughing at boys behind their backs. But all guys have to learn to get past that fear and learn how to act around girls, and once you have a little confidence, you'll see that it isn't so hard after all.

Instructions

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      Spend time with girls. It's impossible to get comfortable around girls unless you are actually in their presence, so rather than fall into the trap of watching them from a distance, get in their midst and interact with them.

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      Stay calm and confident or else you'll give the impression you don't think you're worthy of their time, and they'll start to think so too. Look them in the eye when you talk to them and speak clearly.

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      Talk with them about their own interests and lives and find things you have in common. Find out who they are and show them who you are. Venture your own opinions without being dismissive or critical of theirs.

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      Remember there aren't really any rules. Get a sense of the girls you want to be around and follow their cues about the behavior they admire and the behavior they shun. For example, some girls like a tough guy who will take charge of the conversation, while others prefer a sensitive one who will allow them to lead.