How to Teach Your Teens to Count Their Blessings

Most teens take certain things for granted, like security, comfort and well-being. They will develop into adults who continue to have this perspective unless their parents intervene and teach them how to count their blessings. If your child will soon be a teen, take steps to make sure he maintains a grateful attitude. Doing this now might help him avoid being complacent about his present blessings and those he will have in the future.

Instructions

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      Talk about your family's blessings. These might be material possessions or intangibles like good health and happiness. Refer to recent news stories about people who live in war-torn countries or places that have experienced natural disasters. Encourage your teen to appreciate a home, clean water and basic safety in a secure country.

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      Use real-life examples to help your teen realize his blessings. If possible, take him to a homeless shelter to help serve meals. Ask your teen to perform volunteer service for charities that stock food pantries or distribute coats to disadvantaged kids. Seeing others cope without basic necessities should give your child a new perspective on his blessings.

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      Volunteer to attend a mission trip. Inquire at neighborhood churches about upcoming mission opportunities in your local area or another state or country. Choose those that will allow you and your child to work together. Helping others in need will help him develop a deeper appreciation for his blessings and broaden his outlook beyond the comfortable parameters in which he lives.

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      Ask your child to make a list and literally count his blessings. This is especially applicable during the holiday season when the focus tends to be on gifts. He might not realize just how many things he has and enjoys every day. Participate in this activity with your teen.

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      Model gratitude in your life. You might be unaware of the fact that your teen watches and listens to you and will often emulate your behavior. Be vocal frequently about your blessings. Show thankfulness for even the little things like a nice, peaceful day or the opportunity to watch the sun set. Talk about how the generosity of others helped you during hard times in your life. Help others yourself as a way to teach your teen the concept of "paying it forward," and encourage him to practice this in his life.

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