How to Deal With Step Parents

How to Deal With Step Parents. Whether you're fond of your mom or dad's new significant other or not, you may not be thrilled to hear that one of your parents is getting re-married. Read on to find out how to deal with your step parents so that you can continue to enjoy your relationship with your mom or dad and possibly even get close to this new member of your family.

Instructions

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      Allow yourself time to adjust. Work on accepting this huge change in your family life, but know that it may take some time.

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      Keep an open mind. You may not particularly like your new step mom, but if you make an effort to get to know her, you may find that you have things in common and can actually become friends.

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      Be respectful even when you don't agree with everything your new step parent does or says.

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      Express your feelings in a polite and direct manner. If you're having a hard time accepting this change, talk to your parent about it. If you feel comfortable, talk to your step parent as well. They are probably feeling some of the same insecurities as you, and by talking about it, the three of you may be able to work things out and become closer in the process.

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      Lean on your friends and siblings for support. Seek the help of a counselor if you're having an especially difficult time coping with this new addition to your family.

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