How to Handle a Disappointment in Life With the Help of God

Children experience disappointments early in life. From the first time they don't get their way, fail a test in school or face betrayal from friends, children have to cope with the fact that life isn't always fair. If you are a Christian parent, you can use these times in your child's life to teach him that comfort and help is found in God by trusting Him, praying and reading His Word.

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      Teach your child that disappointments are an inevitable part of life. You understandably want to shield your child from the negative aspects of life, but in doing so, you risk painting an unrealistic view of life. Instead, help your child prepare for his trials so he can handle them in a Godly way. This also allows your child to see God's presence at work in the details of his life.

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      Talk to your child about your own disappointments. It is not necessary to go into great detail if your child is very young. But, it is important to convey how God has worked in your life during specific situations. Share your personal story, as personal testimonies provide powerful first-hand accounts of God's mercy, grace and love during times of trouble or confusion.

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      When disappointments happen in your child's life, tell her that God is always waiting to hear her prayers. Emphasize that she doesn't have to recite a scripted prayer. Encourage her to speak to God from her heart even if she's angry and hurt. This is a good opportunity to teach her that God wants her to come to Him with all her feelings. Ask your child if you can pray with her or pray for her. Your child will be encouraged to know that you are willing to help through prayer on her behalf.

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      Back up your teachings with scriptures from the Bible. There are numerous verses and Bible stories about dealing with disappointment. One of the most well-known is Philippians 4:6-7: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." There are also simpler verses like Psalms 56:11: "In God I trust; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?" Choose the complexity of the verses based on the age and maturity level of your child and based on the specific situation your child is dealing with.

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