How to Parent From a Distance

You are estranged from your children, whether by divorce or by work commitments. It doesn't matter whether it be three streets or three continents, there are means by which you can still parent from a distance.

Things You'll Need

  • Children
  • Telephone
  • Letters
  • Webcam
  • Scrapbook pages

Instructions

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      Children thrive on contact, especially during their adolescent years. Schedule a regular time when you will call the children, and nurture that as an important part of their schedule. Sunday evenings are a favorable time, when children of all ages will usually be home prior to starting the week.

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      Letters and postcards that continue to fill their letter box will help. Children thrive on receiving mail, and the anticipation of "waiting for the next" maintains excitement. For younger children, try to establish a connection to something that they know about. Buy postcards and circle where "your car" is parked, using the same color vehicle that they know.

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      Webcams can be used for a face to face chat with your children. Don't expect them to be there if you haven't scheduled it beforehand. Use the webcam and take them on a virtual trip to museums and places of interest, and explain the sights to them as you would on a real excursion. Don't webcam when you are upset or ill, keep the moments light.

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      Scrapbooking is a means by which both the child and the parent report back on their separate adventures. Excursions, places of interest and friends can all be incorporated. Make scrapbook pages and mail them off so that when you are together you can relive the moment.

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      A cell phone can be given to an older child for impromptu contact. After some instruction on usage and call charges, it's important to establish that there may be times when both of may be unable to take a call. Point out you will always return their call at the first opportunity.

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      Souvenirs play an important part if you are gone for any length of time. They can be as simple as a tourist pennant, a newspaper from the area you are in, or photographs. Always make sure that any souvenirs are not fragile. You will want you child to touch and feel the item, and to live through the location, even though they were not there.

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