How to Decide Between Best Friend Versus Parent

There are parents who have a problem distinguishing the difference between parenting and being a best friend. This lack of understanding can create setbacks in a relationship between parent and child. Children need parents to be parents. If you stick to being a parent the day will come when your relationship will evolve into friendship. If you are unsure whether you fit the parent or the friend mode, follow the easy steps to stay where your child needs you to be.

Instructions

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      Be a parent at all times. Truth, wisdom, knowledge, caring, teaching, loving; the ingredients that should never be absent are the building blocks on which your relationship will grow. Veer from these components and you will only confuse her.

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      Listen as a friend, but use parental practices for input. If he is worried about his buddies wanting him to drink and drive try to refrain from responding as a friend. A parent would never counter, Oh it will be all right as long as you're careful.

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      Respond as a parent only. Don't be wishy washy and say he shouldn't drink and drive but if he does it's understandable. It is never understandable to encourage him to drink and drive.

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      Be friendly with her friends but in an adult manner and by issuing guidance only when requested. Don't try to be young and hip so her friends will like you. If you aren't invited to hang out during the slumber party don't be offended. Be happy she has friends and in knowing they will be there for her when you can't be.

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      Laugh together. It's good to joke around and create memories that will last a lifetime. These are the memories she will hang onto when you pass on. This will also guide her in being the same with her children.

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      Spend time together but don't be stingy. Expect him to have days in which he prefers to be with his friends, but if you have a good relationship there will be times he will choose to be with you rather than his friends.

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      Always maintain the role as parent while she is growing up. The day will come when she will be an adult and you will be both mother and best friend.

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