How to Raise a Spirited Child

If you're struggling to raise a spirited child, consider these strategies to deal with the meltdowns, arguments, quirky traits or fierce independence. By learning to manage the highs and lows, you can channel your child's intense personality into positive results.

Instructions

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      Develop patience and calm yourself before dealing with your child's mood swings so your anger won't fuel his tantrum. If your spirited child is persistent and won't let requests go, for example, be consistent in your ability to firmly say, "No" and refuse to discuss the situation any further even if he has a meltdown in a public place.

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      Discover ways to channel your child's limitless energy. Try tap dancing, gymnastics, swimming or soccer as a way to turn her non-stop action into a talent. If she can't follow such an organized activity, take her on hikes or bike rides so she's free to go at her own pace.

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      Create a system to help your child anticipate and deal with transitions if he has trouble leaving an activity that he enjoys. Discover if he responds positively to a 10-minute warning, a timer or a task chart to let him know it's time to do something else.

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      Keep your child from becoming overstimulated if crowds, noise or stress trigger her meltdowns or uncooperative behavior. If someone invites her to a birthday party, for example, check out the location beforehand, find out how many kids will be there and ask about the planned activities to determine if she should go.

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      Try to see the positive side to your spirited child and make use of the traits as he grows. Help him use his stubbornness, for example, to tackle tough math problems in school or play off of his independent streak by giving him more responsibilities around the house.

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      Find ways to pamper yourself and get enough downtime to relax and recuperate. Staying physically and emotionally healthy will give you more energy to deal with your child's trying behavior.

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