How to Discipline Kids for Bad Grades

As a parent, it can be disappointing when your child arrives home with a bad grade on his report card, especially if it was unexpected. Responding to a bad grade in an appropriate manner is important, as it shows your child how highly you value his education. Before you dish out the discipline, it is helpful to consider what contributed to the final grade. A child who performs poorly in one subject, but excels in others, may need additional help understanding the curriculum. On the other hand, bad grades that are caused by incomplete work or a failure to turn in assignments suggest that discipline may be an appropriate response.

Instructions

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      Talk with your child about the importance of education and how it will affect his future. Clearly express your expectations to your child. Take into account your child's capabilities and be sure that your expectations are reasonable.

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      Require your child to complete his daily homework before enjoying privileges, such as television, video games, Internet and socializing with friends. Learning to prioritize responsibilities before entertainment is an important skill that will benefit your child throughout his life.

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      Remove valued privileges, such as television or cell phone use, to motivate your child to perform better in school. Restore privileges when improvement is shown or your expectations are met. Tailor the chosen discipline to fit the personality of your child and the circumstances of the bad grade.

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      Prohibit or limit contact with friends if excessive socializing is contributing to poor performance in school. Watch for a sudden drop in grades when a new friend is on the scene, as that friend may be a negative influence on your child and his values.

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      Support the negative consequences issued by the school for poor grades. Children may not be allowed to participate in extracurricular activities unless a specified grade point average is maintained.

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