How to Discipline a Headstrong Child
As children grow up, they become headstrong as they discover their sense of self. You need to set boundaries to prevent your children from getting into harm or trouble. The most effective ways for them to do this is to prevent problem behaviors before they arise and set up a routine. According to AskDr.Sears, "Discipline is grounded on a healthy relationship between a parent and a child." Having open communication in an understanding way can make discipline easier.
Instructions
Connect with your headstrong child by learning why he acts certain ways and understanding how he thinks. Make time to play and work with your child to establish an effective relationship. Prevent problems before they occur. Plan ahead and give your child a five-minute warning to prepare her for transitioning to an activity that she does not like. Distract your headstrong child when you notice he is becoming upset. Point out something that your child enjoys. Establish a routine so that your headstrong child will know what to expect. Plan activities to keep her busy so that she does not become bored and get into trouble. Shape your child's behavior by setting up a safe environment where he can explore. Establish boundaries to shape positive behaviors and prevent harmful ones from occurring. Establish clear communication with your child. Talk to your child respectfully and listen to her viewpoints.