How to Overcome Challenges in Raising Children

Raising children is never without its challenges, and these obstacles can range far and wide, from small instances of misbehavior to much more serious problems. While there is no how-to guide on raising children properly, certain tips and tricks can keep you from feeling hopeless and desperate.

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      Learn the best means of discipline. Discipline is a part of every parent-child relationship and is most effective when expressed constructively. Talk to your children about their actions and the consequences rather than merely lashing out. If they are misbehaving in public, don't become embarrassed by others' judgment; focus on your child and the situation at hand. Losing control yourself will likely only exacerbate the situation.

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      Be a positive role model. You cannot always change others' behavior, but you can be an influence with your own good behavior. If your children don't seem to notice or catch on, talk about the positive things you're doing as you do them. Children are more likely to model what they see and forget what they hear, according to Fredda Herz Brown, Ph.D., and Dennis T. Jaffe, Ph.D., for the Council on Foundations. Talk about your children's positive traits as well to reinforce their confidence in themselves.

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      Help your children establish structure. Kids rely on structure and parents should help them learn the necessary self-discipline and motivation to achieve a non-erratic lifestyle, according to the Child Development Institute. Kids rely on routine for a sense of security in their lives.

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      Share good times together. Research reveals spending fun, quality time with your children when possible results in happier, more successful kids, says the Child Development Institute. Carve out time when you're not butting heads to put aside your frustrations and simply have a good time with your children. Remember, however, to always be a parent first before being a friend.

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      Take time for yourself to de-stress. Becoming overly stressed will help neither you nor your children. If you sense things are getting beyond your control, hire a babysitter or put your children in the care of a trusted family member and take a little time to relax, by doing something low-key that you enjoy.

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      Know when to consult a professional. Hurdles are a fact of life when you're raising a family, but sometimes these challenges are more than you should be expected to take on alone. If your child is violent or exhibits any behavior you find to be disturbing or out of control, seek help from a child counseling professional.

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