Steps to Motivate a Child to Play Chess

Play Chess

• Most kids want to be part of what their parents are doing. One of the best ways to motivate your kids to play chess is to let them see you playing. Try to find opponents who don't mind the noise and distractions that inevitably come with having children watch you play. Teach your child that chess is a quiet game that requires allowing the players to think about their moves, but don't expect her to be perfectly still -- especially before she knows the game well enough to pay attention and follow the match.

Provide Regular Opportunities

• Make sure your kids have ample opportunity to play chess. Keep a chess board available at home. If your child's school has a chess club, encourage him to join. If not, volunteer to start one. Offer to play chess with your child. Most kids crave one-on-one time with their parents. Having a regular date to play chess is a great way to fulfill that need in his life while also providing him with the benefits of playing chess.

Keep It Fun

• Most kids aren't going to play like grand masters, especially when they are just learning the game. Like all games, chess should be fun. Avoid being overly critical. If you're teaching your child yourself, talk through your moves and explain why you made them. If your child makes a poor move, gently show her how the move makes her vulnerable, and offer to let her make a different move instead. Make sure that you explain to her that chess etiquette usually doesn't allow a player to change her move, but that you're making an exception since you're helping her to learn.

Provide Appropriate Competition

• Very few kids -- or adults, for that matter -- enjoy playing games they never win. Until your child develops his skills, you'll either have to "dumb down" your playing a bit to give him a chance or provide opportunities for him to play with other beginners. An ideal opponent is relatively equal in skill, giving both players the opportunity to win. When your child does play someone who is significantly more skilled, teach him to look at losing as an opportunity to learn and grow.

Don't Overdo It

• Some kids love sitting inside and playing chess for hours on end. Most kids, however, prefer the game in smaller doses. Make sure that you don't push chess on your kids to the point that it becomes a chore. Encourage them to pursue chess as one of many activities and interests. If your kid just isn't interested in chess, don't push the issue. Patiently encourage her when you have the opportunity and continue offering opportunities for her to play and learn when she's ready.