Relatives Vs. Foster Parents in Adoption

Adoption regulations vary from state to state, but all states prefer having children adopted into stable and secure homes rather than placed in foster care. Children are available for adoption if attempts to place them with their birth families or parents are unsuccessful, or if their parents have had their legal parental rights terminated. Children can be adopted by either prospective adoptive parents who are unrelated to them, foster parents, or relatives.

  1. Relatives

    • In general, adoption by relatives is treated less formally and is less suspect to legal complications than "outside" adoptions--either by a prospective adoptive family or foster family. Each state has a different definition of "relative" and the degree of relatedness between the prospective adopter and adoptee. Relation by half-blood, full-blood or marriage is often considered to be "relative," but cousin relationships are typically considered less close than relationships such as sibling, aunt, uncle, grandparent or great-grandparent. Adoptions by relatives are usually considered less disruptive than other types of adoption.

    Foster Parents

    • Foster parents considering adoption should realize that there are many significant differences between fostering and adopting. With adoption, you become fully responsible for the child in all decision-making, legal and financial aspects. You don't continue to receive a subsidy for being a foster parent, and you become, in all respects, the child's parents. As well, and most importantly, you'll be focusing on incorporating the child into your own home and family, rather than serving as a temporary location while the child is being reunited with his birth family or adopted by another family.

    Conditions for Adoption

    • To be an adoptive parent, you need to be at least 21 years of age, and you must demonstrate financial responsibility. You're signing on to provide a permanent home for your adopted child, making a lifelong commitment. You may be asked to become a foster family before you're considered to be an adoptive family. You can be either single or married to be an adoptive parent/family, and there's no bias against gender, race, ethnicity or sexual orientation, unless there are express wishes on the part of the birth parent(s), which are taken into consideration by the adoption agency.

    Process

    • To begin the process of adoption, you need to meet with your local Department of Social Services to see if you meet the basic requirements for becoming an adoptive family. Also, you'll likely need to speak with an adoption agency, which will have other sets of requirements and interviews for you to fulfill. You'll have to undergo a review process with both the Department of Social Services and adoption agency that includes home visits with all your family and household members and a criminal background check. You must also be willing and able to demonstrate proof supporting your statement regarding your personal background and lifestyle, and you may be required to complete training sessions or courses before finalizing the adoption.

    • Before deciding whether to adopt a child, it is necessary to weigh the pros and cons. While there are many beneficial aspects to child adoption, there are a number of disadvantages that you should consider and decide whether you are comfortable with
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