How to Deal With a Baby Who Insists on Being Held

If the adorable baby who already spent nine months in your body wants to spend another year in your arms, you're going to need effective coping strategies. Don't beat yourself up if you have to put the baby down sometimes and go nap (or sob) for a few moments in the bathroom. Believe it or not, in a few years your clingy little baby will be a kid, eager to stand -- and run -- on her own two feet.

Instructions

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      Hold your baby for an extended amount of time, even if it̵7;s inconvenient. As a parent, you might get so busy with work, household chores and other kids that it feels like you hold your baby more than you actually do. Babies need lots of physical contact and one-on-one attention. For as long as you can, sit down and focus on nothing else but your baby. If you must multitask, limit yourself to activities you can do while she̵7;s in your arms, like reading, checking email or returning phone calls.

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      Put your baby in a swing, bouncer or vibrating chair as a substitute for your touch. If you̵7;ve held her for a considerable amount of time and she still won̵7;t let you put her down, perhaps she̵7;ll be better comforted by consistent, automated rhythm. Remain visible so she feels that you̵7;re nearby.

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      Strap your baby to your chest or back if putting her in a swing or vibrating chair doesn̵7;t work. Use something that will keep her close but leaves your arms free, like a cloth wrap, sling or a snap-and-buckle carrier. Just because your baby wants to be held doesn̵7;t mean you should be held hostage from other activities. Strapping your baby to your body will allow you to prepare meals, clean the house and deal with your other children, all while soothing your little one.

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      Strap your baby into her stroller and go for a walk if all else fails. Fresh air and constant movement can help even the fussiest babies settle down and relax. If weather doesn̵7;t permit a walk, put her in her car seat and go for a drive. Play soothing music to lull her to sleep.

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      Take shifts with other adults in your support system to give yourself a break. Ask your spouse, a relative or a friend to watch the baby while you take a nap or go to the movies. If no one is available to help and you̵7;re feeling overwhelmed by your baby̵7;s demands, put her down and let her cry for a little while. Perhaps she̵7;ll learn to self soothe; if not, at least you̵7;ll have a short break to calm your nerves and regain your patience.

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