How to Prevent Your Toddler From Becoming Too Attached to a Lovey
A security object can provide comfort and strength for a young child, especially in challenging situations that involve new or scary events. While many kids cling tenaciously to their loveys for years, you might wish to downplay the attachment to minimize struggles. By not encouraging your child̵7;s strong need for the item, she may adopt a more laid-back attitude about it.
Instructions
Stay neutral about any item you notice your toddler forming an attachment to. Instead of making sure that it ends up in the crib for every nap and bedtime, provide the item only if your child specifically asks for it. Resisting the urge to overreact to the lovey helps minimize it, suggests physician Marilyn Heins, with the Parent Kids Right website. Offer a variety of toys to your toddler at common transition times -- going to sleep, waking up and at separation times. By providing various toys, your child might not focus on one specific toy. Give the desired lovey to your little one without fussing or discouraging its use if your child expresses a desire for it. Your negative reaction to the lovey could have the opposite effect and cement a stronger attachment for your toddler. Wait for your toddler to give up the security object on her own when she̵7;s ready. You might create a special storage spot in your little one̵7;s bedroom for the lovey so your child can put it away unless she needs it, advises the Nickelodeon Parents Connect website.
