How to Give a Timeout to a Toddler

Timeouts begin to be an effective method of discipline around the age of 18 months, according to "Parenting." They are a deterrent because the child receives a timeout from parental attention. In order for a timeout to correct undesirable behavior, the parent needs to spend "time in" with the child. Time in, or quality bonding time, helps the child to feel positive attention that he misses during the timeouts.

Things You'll Need

  • Chair or step designated for timeout.

Instructions

  1. Executing the Timeout

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      Give the timeout as soon as the child has disobeyed a rule once. Threatening "If you throw another toy, you'll get a timeout," is not as effective as an immediate consequence as soon as the child violates a known rule, according to "Parenting."

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      Send the child to a location that is appropriate for a timeout. You may pick a stair step or a particular chair or simply walk to the opposite side of the room from the child. In any of these situations, the child is no longer receiving your attention.

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      Interact as little as possible with your child during this time. Stay calm and refrain from scolding him. Timeout should be a time of quiet reflection for him and a chance for both of you to calm down. If your child screams or fusses in timeout, he stays until he composes himself.

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      Give a minute of timeout for every year of age, recommends
      Ask Dr. Sears. For example, a 3-year-old would receive three minutes. You can set a timer, which helps you to keep track of the time. The timer also helps the child to understand the passage of time during a timeout. Once the timer goes off, the child can decide for herself if she's ready to leave the timeout spot.

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      Don't dwell on the bad behavior after the timeout is over. Simply pick up where you left off with your current activity with your toddler. Or, if you wish to start fresh, you can begin a completely different game. Either way, the message is that the punishment is done and you are giving the child another chance at good behavior.

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