What Do Parents Need to Know About Toddlers for Day Care?

The University of Michigan Health System reports that 80 percent of children entering school today were previously receiving some kind of child care. With statistics like that, rest assured you are not in the minority as you prepare both you and your child for entering day care. Prior to his first day, there are some things to keep in mind about your toddler that will help make the day care transition occur as smoothly as possible.

  1. Preparation Goes a Long Way

    • When selecting a day care for your child, look for a location that feels warm and responsive while also providing a stimulating environment for your child. Ask questions about meals, teacher-to-child ratio, appropriate child attire and nap times, as these may vary from location to location. Once you have the perfect day care selected, preparing her adequately can help to ensure she is excited for her first day. Pam Solis, program coordinator at Children̵7;s Hospital Child Care Center in San Diego, California, recommends bringing your toddler to an initial tour of the center before she starts. Solis also believes it can be beneficial for parents to join their children for an hour or two at the day care to build a child̵7;s trust in her surroundings.

    Transitions May Be Rough

    • The What to Expect website, based on the best-selling series of books written by Heidi Murkoff, explains that toddlers don̵7;t readily transition between activities or places well, so don̵7;t be surprised if your child throws a fit both when you drop him off and when you pick him up. This is normal and is not an indication of true negative feelings toward either you or the day care. Try not to take it personally, and remain cheerful yet determined through the transitions to help your child learn to do the same.

    Expect a Need For Downtime

    • Recognize that your child may be overstimulated by pickup time and in need of a little space. Don̵7;t overwhelm her with kisses and affection unless she seems to want that explicitly. Offer her a little space, and perhaps an after-school snack to help her recharge from her day. Remember that your child may need to unwind after her day just as you occasionally do.

    Talking May Not Come Naturally

    • Children are all different in their desire to communicate, and your toddler may not open up about his day quite as readily as you would have hoped. Help your child to find the words to tell you about his day by asking questions that may guide him. Rather than asking specifically about what he did, ask about what his friends did. Focus on extremes, asking him to tell you about the best and worst parts of his day. Don̵7;t be afraid to get a little silly in your questioning, as the laughter may help your toddler to open up while he corrects you on your thinking.

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