Self Esteem Activities for Youth

Self-esteem is best described by American author Richard Bach who said "Sooner or later, those who win are those who think they can." Self-esteem is how a person feels about themselves. Developing positive self-esteem as a youth is critical to growing up to be happy, responsible and successful adults.

  1. Early Development of Self-Esteem

    • Helping children develop positive self-esteem is an important responsibility for all adults who play a part in children's lives. When children feel good about themselves, they are better able to resist the negative influences that will tempt them throughout their lives.

    Characteristics of Self-Esteem

    • Positive self-esteem characteristics include strong principles and values, ability to use good judgment, involved in a variety of positive activities, resists peer pressure, is confident when dealing with challenges and cares about others.

    Build Self Esteem Through Opportunity

    • By encouraging choice making when they are young, helps to better prepare them for the difficult choices they will be faced with later. Having serious discussions about choices---and their consequences---help children build strong self-esteem about what it means to make good choices.

    The Building Blocks of Self-Esteem

    • Adults can have a profound influence on a child's developing self esteem by providing learning opportunities and experiences. The essential building blocks are belonging, purpose, success and trust.

    Build Self-Esteem Through Responsibility

    • Allow them to be in charge of a project or task---even if it's simply making their bed in the morning. The idea is that the child feels he or she is making a big contribution around the home.

    Self-Esteem Through Quality Time

    • Spend good, quality time with a child. Be sure that this attention is undivided and just for them. Whether it's baking cookies, helping with homework or passing a football, quality moments can help develop positive self-esteem.

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