How to Build Confidence in Your Teenage Daughter

Every parent wants the best for her child, so if you're watching your daughter suffer from low self-confidence throughout her teenage years, you feel compelled to do something to help. You can never force your daughter to have confidence -- it is something that can only come naturally through your encouragement, support and love. By giving these things to your daughter on a regular basis, you can help her see what you see: That she deserves to go into the world self-assured and confident in the person she is.

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      Celebrate your daughter's accomplishments and praise her when she succeeds. Your recognition and approval goes a long way.

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      Allow her to find her own way, even when that includes failing. You may not think she is cut out for the cheerleading squad, for example, but telling her that before she can try only shows her that you don't believe in her, which can be just as damaging, if not more so, than trying and failing.

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      Encourage her to pursue her interests, even if they inconvenience you. Waking up a 5 a.m. every Saturday to take her to hockey practice may not be fun, but if it is what she enjoys and excels at, it is your responsibility as a parent to encourage her.

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      Ask her for her opinions. When you include her in decisions and show that you value her thoughts, you build her self-image and sense of self-importance.

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      Set a good example for your daughter. When you don't act with self-confidence, your daughter learns to do the same. Be proud of who you are, and your daughter will learn to respect herself, too.

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      Dole out criticism gently. Coddling your teen does not do her any favors, but when you do offer criticism, be constructive and optimistic.

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      Encourage her to volunteer. Volunteering may be less stressful than working a paid job, and the responsibility she takes on may help her develop self-confidence.

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