How to Help a Lonely Teenager

Are you encouraging friendships?

Allow your teenager to invite friends to the house. Talk to your teenager about the other teenagers they spend time with at school. Learn more about your teen's friends and become active in these relationships. Allow your teenager to participate in sleep overs as long as you are comfortable.

Is your teen involved in church activities?

Find out if there are any church activities that your teenager can participate in. Call the local church in your area and ask if there are any youth meetings and youth activities. Research other youth programs that are available in your community. Ask your child about his interests and hobbies.

Do you have teenage nephews and nieces?

Call your teenager' s cousins. Parents should contact their siblings and try to get the teenager children together. Schedule fun activities with other family members and make sure your teenager is involved. Plan family reunions and get all the teenage children together. Plan to meet with family on a regular basis.

Have you spoken with your teenager's teacher?

Schedule an appointment with your teen's teacher to find out how she is doing in school. Discuss any potential problems that may exist before they get out of control. Meet with guidance counselors to learn if there are any bullying issues in the school.

Does your teen have online accounts?

Review the email account, myspace account and Facebook account of your teenager. Lonely teenagers tend to look for relationships online. Parents should know who their children are meeting on the computer. Give your teenager permission to use the internet, but also let them know that you are responsible for them until he can take care of himself.