Parental Advantages of Texting

Teen Acceptance

• The way teenagers use their cell phones has evolved, according to the Pew Internet survey. In 2009, teenagers sent an average of 50 text messages each day and in 2011, teenagers sent an average of 60 text messages each day. The group of people teens commonly text with includes parents, peers, teachers, bosses and coaches. Because many teenagers prefer communicating by text message, they are more apt to pay attention to and accept this form of communication when it comes in.

Send/Receive Record

• When you send a text message, you have a record of the send time in case you need it for future reference. The text message will remain on your child̵7;s cell phone unless she deletes it. The stored text message can contain information or details that your teenager might need to check again, making it a helpful method of mobile communication. For example, if you want your teenager to run an errand for you, you might send a text message with a short list of items to pick up at the store. Calling with this information might mean that your teen forgets an item. Texting with the information gives your teenager a message to check as a reminder.

Convenience

• Sending a text message is often more convenient than placing a call -- both for the sender and the receiver, states Anita Gurian with the New York University Child Study Center. Assuming your teenager is occupied and busy when he̵7;s away from home, receiving a text message from you can be more practical and easier to manage. Your teenager can also receive your text message in a variety of settings, and it's not as invasive as call might be.

Privacy

• Text-messaging your teen is an effective way to get a fast and private message delivered for her eyes only. The teenager can receive, read, save or delete the message without attracting the attention of others. You might even use text messages as a way to connect with your teenager throughout the day in a private and personal way.