How to Get to Know Your Teen's Friends

Peers and friends rank high on a teen̵7;s list of priorities, suggests the University of Illinois Extension. Not only do friends provide companionship and entertainment, they also provide effective opportunities for learning how to get along with others respectfully. Because friends can greatly influence your child, it̵7;s a good idea to meet and get to know them.

Instructions

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      Learn the names of your teenager̵7;s friends so you can recognize the names when your teenager mentions them, advises the Focus Adolescent Services website.

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      Inform your teenager that her friends are welcome at your home. Opening your home to your teenager̵7;s friends accomplishes several things. First, it makes it possible for you to provide a safe and healthy place for teenagers to congregate and visit. Secondly, it gives you an opportunity to observe your teenager̵7;s friends and hear and see what they are like. Thirdly, it gives you an opportunity to interact with your teenager̵7;s friends and develop a comfortable relationship with them.

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      Conduct yourself as a friendly and relaxed parent whenever you meet and greet your teenager̵7;s friends, whether in your home or while out and about. Smile, converse, tell jokes, listen to stories and interact with the teenagers. Chatting in a friendly fashion should encourage positive feelings between you and your teen̵7;s friends.

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      Get to know the friends̵7; parents as well, suggests the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Knowing the parents can effectively close the circle and give you an important vantage point into your teen's social life. Maintain contact with the parents as the teenagers pursue their activities so you have a strong connection.

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