Parenting Strategies for an Odd Adolescent

As a parent, it is natural to want your children to fit in and make friends easily. Unfortunately, not all kids have characters that map neatly to conventional norms, and some may struggle socially as a result. In some cases, seeking the help of a professional for personality issues may be advisable. Otherwise, it is highly possible that your child is simply an individual in need of your guidance as he faces a world he doesn't readily fit into.

  1. Encourage Individuality

    • History is full of geniuses and artists who at one time or another were considered odd, or even possessed. Prodigies in particular often have a difficult time finding their place on the social ladder. Imagine what would have been lost if some of the greatest musicians, artists, and minds of the past had been encouraged to stifle their individuality in favor of conforming? Encourage your child to recognize what is special about her and foster an environment where she can thrive, knowing that she does belong at least within her own home.

    Advocate for Your Child

    • There are plenty of services available to children who may have special needs or excel in certain areas. Seek out opportunities within the school system which may provide your child with additional attention. Contact your state government to inquire about programs that may be available. Expend the extra effort to ensure your child has all the same chances in life as his peers.

    Seek Appropriate Playmates

    • If your child has specific interests, research local groups or clubs she could join that would allow her to share those interests with others. Speak to a school counselor about other children your child might be naturally compatible with, and encourage positive friendships whenever possible. Reach out to other parents in your area who have children the same age and arrange play dates at your home so that you can monitor your child̵7;s interaction. Guide your child in making friends, giving her tips on how some of her behaviors may be perceived by others and ways she can be respond that are more friendly or approachable.

    Support Your Child for Who He Is

    • Above all else, make sure your child knows you love him for exactly who he is. Children who feel they do not fit in may be at a higher risk for depression and suicide, but research from San Francisco State University̵7;s Family Acceptance Project is showing promise for children who feel accepted and supported within their own families.

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