How to Deal With Teenage Pregnancy

Upon hearing the news that your teenager is pregnant, it's normal to feel as though your world and hers have been shattered. However, an unplanned pregnancy doesn't have to mean the end of a teenager's dreams. Though the statistics are grim -- two-thirds of teenagers who become pregnant fail to graduate high school -- your love and support can make the difference. No matter what choice your daughter makes, she needs you now more than ever.

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      Tell your daughter that you love her and will be there for her no matter what. Telling you about her pregnancy was likely the hardest thing she ever had to do, and becoming angry won't change reality. Hug her, tell her you're on her side and cry together if you need to.

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      Talk to her about her choices after you've had time to process the news. Arm yourself with accurate information about adoption, parenting and abortion. Sit down with her and discuss the pros and cons of each choice. Explain the difference between open and closed adoptions and medical and surgical abortion.

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      Tell her you expect her to finish her education if she chooses to parent, and make a concrete plan for her to do so. Talk to her school counselor about the options provided by her school. If the school doesn't have a program for teenage mothers that provides daycare and parenting classes, check into the possibility of transferring to a school that does. Some teen moms also choose to complete their coursework online. Your teen's school counselor can tell you about programs that will allow her to do so.

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      Make an appointment with an OB/GYN to confirm the pregnancy and discuss your teen's medical options. If she chooses to continue the pregnancy, she needs regular prenatal care. If she chooses to terminate, the doctor can schedule the appointment and talk to her about what to expect. Talk to the doctor yourself before the visit to make sure she has no political agenda and will treat your teen with compassion.

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      Involve the father and his parents to the best of your ability. Remember that marriage is rarely a viable option for teenagers due to the fact that their brains are still developing. However, the father should be expected to be in his child's life and to help provide financial support if your daughter chooses to parent. By involving his whole family -- provided they're supportive of and kind to your daughter -- you create a wider support network for her to access as she goes through a difficult time.

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