How to Explain the 10 Commandments to Preteens

For believers in the Bible, the Ten Commandments outline the standard for ethical behavior according to God. The commandments were given to the people of Israel via God's servant Moses. As God's chosen representative, Moses was instructed by God to tell his people to follow these mandates in order to live a fulfilling, prosperous and holy life. Preteens can benefit from knowing God's standard for living since this knowledge presents a positive alternative to today's negative influences. God's commandments can serve as a reference point for how to live life at times when their morals and decision making skills are being put to the test.

Things You'll Need

  • Bible

Instructions

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      Review the Ten Commandments. In delivering God's instructions to preteens, be prepared for them to pay careful and critical attention to your words. During your review you should consider each commandment individually. Analyze God's words and contemplate how these words can continue to be upheld in time of personal uncertainty. Keep in mind that most preteens are both curious and insecure. They are increasingly being exposed to behaviors that conflict with the words written in the Bible. So, when presenting each commandment, it's highly likely that their subconsciouses will be suggesting things contrary to the information being presented. For this reason, a thorough review is necessary so that you will be well informed on the subject at hand.

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      Provide an environment in which preteens feel comfortable asking questions. Although preteens are on their way to becoming adults, they have not fully made the transition. There is still a part of a preteen that desires compassion. An open environment also serves the purpose of disarming any negativity that may exist within a preteen's world. Removing unnecessary distractions also allows your preteen to form thoughts clearly. Since today's preteens often find themselves surrounded by a myriad of things competing for their thoughts, it may be helpful to prepare the perfect place to have a biblical discussion.

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      Teach the commandments in simple and modern terms. The Bible was written many years ago. In modern times, some of the language used in the Bible may serve as a barrier in getting ideas across to preteens. Preteens will be able to relate and respond to the message of God more quickly when they don't have to translate biblical language. Update biblical expressions into modern terminology to promote a clear understanding of God's commands.

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      Allow preteens to express their thoughts. Preteens need to know that their opinions matters. They are at a time in life when they are questioning everything around them. Listen to their comments patiently. Keep in mind that their comments may actually be based on current real-life situations. If a preteen has chosen to open up to you, listen. On the other hand, don't assume anything about preteens. Remaining nonjudgmental is key to holding a conversation with a preteen.

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