How to Know if a Teen Is Developmentally Delayed

Adolescent development is a complex phenomenon involving biological, cognitive, psychological, behavioral and social indicators. As is the case with younger children, teens will develop at their own pace. The majority will navigate the various stages between puberty and maturity on par with their same age peers. While you shouldn't press the panic button just because your teen's development isn't synced with that of every other 15-year-old you know, it is important to recognize the signs of developmental delay so, if your child is affected, you can get him the help he needs.

Things You'll Need

  • Input from other observers

Instructions

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      Familiarize yourself with developmental milestones. Scour the Internet for information about adolescent development. Talk to your child's pediatrician about what does and does not constitute normal development for young people your child's age.

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      Observe your teen. If you are concerned that your teen is significantly behind her peers with regard to any developmental milestones, keep a close watch. Instincts are important, but diagnoses are made based on data, not intuition. Whether your concerns are with your child's ability to think abstractly or pick up on social cues, pay attention to her actions, behavior and interactions. Compare your observations of your child with the developmental markers of typically developing teens you're familiar with.

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      Note your concerns. Write down your observations. If something about your child's intellect or behavior has you worried, record the information in a notebook or electronic document. Be specific about your concerns.

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      Solicit input. Ask teachers and other professionals who are familiar with your child to share their thoughts and concerns. If your teenager is developmentally delayed, chances are you aren't the only one who's noticed it.

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      Seek assistance. If your gut and the evidence you've accumulate tells you your teen is significantly delayed, request help immediately. Start with your child's pediatrician. Request a referral to a developmental pediatrician. Ask his teacher to help you obtain appropriate services at school. Make an appointment with his school's case manager. With the right intervention, teens with developmental delays can overcome their challenges and go on to lead productive, fulfilling lives.

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