Activities for Teen Mothers

For a teen mother, managing finances, education and a new baby can be extremely difficult. Most teen moms also continue to need social support from their peer group, some of whom may not understand the emotions you are dealing with and all of the different directions that your life is pulling you in. There are a few ways that you can meet your socialization needs without feeling as though you are leaving the care of your child to someone else.

  1. Find a Mentor

    • Learning shortcuts from more experienced moms can smooth your transition into motherhood.

      If you know of an older, more experienced mother, ask if you can spend some time with her to see how she does things. Many moms will be flattered to discover that you think they would be a good mentor for you. A more experienced mom may be able to teach you some shortcuts to saving money or let you in one some of the ̶0;mommy secrets̶1; you have not figured out yet. Use her experience so you may not have to learn the hard way. As a bonus, you can foster a relationship between your child and hers, possibly creating a lifelong friendship early on.

    Join a Support Group

    • It̵7;s easy to feel that you are alone. Organizations such as Teen MOPS work to foster a community of support and address concerns specific to teenage mothers. Connecting with a group of young women going through the same thing you are will ease some of the stress you are feeling, and you can pick up some parenting tips along the way.

    Continue Your Education

    • Completing your education is the best investment you can make in your future.

      Education may be the main concern of the adults in your life since you first announced your pregnancy. Listen to them. Although you may feel that you have too much going on in your life at this point, those adults really do know what they are talking about. If child care and time constraints are concerns, consider online alternatives. For example, GED for Free can assist you in preparing for your GED without leaving your home, and Online College Directory can help you research the opportunities available to you in the realm of higher education.

    Don't Isolate Yourself

    • Caring for a baby doesn't mean sitting inside all day.

      Pack a lunch and a blanket and spend a few hours in a park enjoying nature around you. Even young babies enjoy spending time outside, and this time can promote bonding between you and your baby. If you do not live near a park, put your baby in a stroller and take a walk. Invite a friend along and ask her to join you for some girl time.

    • Dinner is a special time families often set aside to share together. It can be easy for many families to slip into monotonous conversation that revolves around daily experiences, so it is important to take some time to plan conversation topics before
    • Most teens take certain things for granted, like security, comfort and well-being. They will develop into adults who continue to have this perspective unless their parents intervene and teach them how to count their blessings. If your child will soon
    • Its important to remember that generalizations about entire groups of people are harmful. Theres a wide range of experiences for both teen mothers and those without children. However, there are some potential differences in experiences and challeng