How to Discipline Mentally Disabled Children

The subject of disciplining any child can be a minefield. There is great variance on what people find acceptable, effective and appropriate. It can be quite a challenge to find two sets of parents who agree. A parent's attitude about discipline is colored by many factors, including her own childhood experiences. The difficulties inherent in disciplining a mentally disabled child are compounded by yet other factors. Some, though not all, children with a mental disability can present with especially challenging behavior. This can become more difficult as the child grows bigger and stronger. Some adults find the idea of disciplining a child who may have difficulty in understanding what he has done wrong particularly difficult. Yet, there are steps you can take to make life easier for the child and yourself.

Instructions

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      Make the rules few and explain them to the child. Focus on her safety, first and foremost. Repeat instructions about road safety, and what the child is allowed to do independently. If the child breaks a rule and this compromises her safety, tell her immediately in a firm voice that you are displeased. Explain, in simple terms, the reason for your annoyance. However, be prepared to revise some of these rules as the child gets older.

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      Avoid becoming angry and frustrated as this will upset the child and you will feel guilty. If there is a particular area of difficulty -- for instance, if the child runs away when out shopping -- ask the advice of the teachers at his school or your physician. Some children who have a cognitive disability may need additional help to manage aspects of their behavior. Cooperate with others who are important in the child's life. Consistency in approach is important.

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      Understand your child's condition and any specific problems associated with it. Join a support group for parents of children with the same disability. Other parents may have encountered similar problems and may have developed coping strategies. Withdraw attention if the child is behaving badly and you feel this has an attention-seeking element. Reinforce positive behavior and improvements in behavior by praising and rewarding, particularly with your love and attention.

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