How to Raise an Only Child

Families with only one child are becoming more common. Parents may decide to limit their family to one child for a variety of reasons. Some parents may experience secondary infertility and be unable to conceive anymore children. Other families may decide that one child is just right. When raising an only child parents may have specific concerns that larger families don't share.

Instructions

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      Accept your decision to have only one child. You may experience pressure from friends and family to have additional children. Keep in mind every situation is different. Talk about your reasons with your spouse and let go of other people's expectations.

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      Provide opportunities for socialization early on. Parents of only children may be concerned a child will not learn to share or compromise. From an early age provide opportunities for children to interact with other kids their age. Enroll your child in preschool or attend mommy and me classes.

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      Visit with extended family. Although your child may not have siblings he may have cousins who are close in age. Have frequent family gatherings to give your child a chance to get to know relatives and build relationships with them.

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      Encourage friendships. All children need friendships, however it is essential that children without siblings are encouraged to spend time with kids their age and form relationships. Consider allowing your child to take a friend along occasionally on family outings.

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      Keep in mind it may be easy to spoil an only child. It may be easier to spoil a child when you don't have to split attention or finances. Limit the amount of toys you buy. Giving a child too much may not teach him or her the value of things. Families need to decide for themselves how much is too much.

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      Let go of any guilt you may have. Parents of only children may worry that their child will be lonely or have an unhappy childhood. Having siblings does not necessarily guarantee a happy childhood. Many only children are well adjusted and happy.

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      Develop a close relationship with your child. Spend time together. Encourage your child to talk to you about anything. Having a close bond with parents helps an only child feel secure and loved. That is the most important thing in a family of any size.

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