How to Relate to and Understand Your Teenage Daughter as a Mother

They say being a mother is one of the most amazing things a person can go through, but does this statement also apply when there is a teenage daughter around and about? It can! Here you will read easy steps to on how to relate to and understand your teenage daughter.

Things You'll Need

  • Time
  • Patience
  • Care
  • Ability to think young

Instructions

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      Have time. Life may get busy with work, housework, and everyday life, but remember that these are valuable years in your child's life and though it may not seem like they do sometimes with their new found independence, they need you there for them. Time is essential. Set aside some time specifically for your daughter.

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      Have things in common. Don't go out of your way to find common interests, as your child will easily see through this tactic, but gradually find common interest. Spend countless hours speaking to your child and finding your own interests through them. They will appreciate you if you're genuine.

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      Open up to your daughter. While spending time with her, explain bits and pieces of your life to her. She may find that she can relate to you. Never be afraid to hold back anything. The more honest you are as a parent, the more respect you will receive.

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      Do not smother her. Give her space, as a young developing teenager does need the ability to breathe.

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      Think like a teenager. Think back to the days when you were of such an age, combine them with the times that are today, and comprehend just what your daughter may be going through. Do not think like an adult. Once you remember what it is like to be in your teen years, you'll easily be able to see where your daughter is coming from.

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      Be spontaneous. Teenagers find most adults to be boring and unenthusiastic. Show your daughter your wild side and she'll see fun in you yet.

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      Let her come to you. This is one of the biggest things... Sometimes going to her may make her feel forced and smothered. Sometimes a teen really does need time to reflect on problems alone. She may or may not end up coming to you in the end, but know that you allowing her to have the decision is what will really count in a positive way in your relationship.

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      Try not to raise your voice. Though teenagers may be difficult sometimes, remember that it's just a phase of growing up and to punish what is inevitable is quite pointless. Set limits, but be kind. Two raised voices will just create noise.

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      Remind her of your love. No matter what problems arise, what fights begin, and how many silent acts happen, let your daughter remember how much you love her. Do not be afraid to tell her on a regular basis. Sometimes kids just need to be informed of how much they mean to you.

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