How to Teach Autistic Children to Stop Touching Others

Autism Spectrum Disorder is a collection of disorders where the primary characteristics include problems with social interaction and communication. This group of disorders includes Autism, Asperger's Disorder, and Pervasive Development Disorder Not Otherwise Specified. Individuals with autism often encounter problems with understanding social cues from those around them and difficulty with verbal and nonverbal communication. It is not uncommon for those with autism to have problems making and maintaining eye contact, and to have trouble understanding emotions and what they mean. People with autism also function best when they have a clear expectation of their routines as repetitive behaviors are common with individuals with this disorder.

Things You'll Need

  • Poster Board
  • Markers

Instructions

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      Use a behavioral based approach. Use conditioning, including reward and punishment, to change the child's response to the environment. Replace an unwanted behavior with a new acceptable behavior.

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      Set clear expectations. When taking a behavior based approach set a clear expectation for what the child is doing wrong. If your autistic child is touching others when they should not, you need to make it clear that this is not acceptable behavior. Statements need to be communicated in a calm voice tone and need to be clear and behavior based, for example "Timmy, we do not hug strangers."

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      Use visible non-verbal cues for reinforcement.

      Use nonverbal cues to reinforce the concept. Since children with autism have a hard time understanding social cues but do understand routine and structure, create a poster board the clearly states the rule "No Touching" or "Keep Hands to Yourself." Use pictures to illustrate the concept if the child does not have reading skills. It can be helpful to have the child make this poster with you. The poster will serve as a nonverbal reminder for the child as to what the behavioral expectations are.

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      Replace the unwanted behavior with a new behavior. After you have set the expectation of what you do not want, you must communicate to the child what you want them to do instead. If the problem is that they are hugging strangers, tell them to shake hands instead. If the problem is touching other students or their siblings to get attention, tell them to call the other person by name and wait for her to say "what." It is important that your instructions are clear and concise.

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      Practice and reinforce the new behavior. When a child does not follow the rule of not touching others calmly remind him of the rule and state what he should do instead. For example "Timmy, we do not hug strangers, stop hugging and shake hands instead."

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      Rewards are key to changing behavior.

      Reward the child for using the appropriate behavior. When the child follows the rule, or corrects the unacceptable behavior when prompted, praise the child or use tangible items such as candy or playing with a toy to encourage the child to repeat the preferred behavior in the future.

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